Rosie O’Donnell and Aimee Hauer are calling it quits.
A source confirms to PEOPLE that the actress, 60, and the therapeutic massage therapist, 43, are no longer together. The couple, who went Instagram legitimate for the length of Pleasure Month in June, met on social media, with the comedian sliding into her now-ex’s DMs on TikTok.
“I watched … her TikToks and whenever I saw her, I would smile and [be] admire, ‘This woman is, admire, splendid,” O’Donnell recalled on Howard Stern’s SiriusXM display in September. “Private a examine her, she’s so fully happy and eager and enticing and entertaining and she has a mild coming from her.”
“I sent her a DM,” she continued. “I realizing presumably we would factual be friends. I said, ‘You’re very enticing. I luxuriate in your behold,’ and, admire, 10 days later she wrote me assist with a minute bit video.”
The pair went Instagram-legitimate for the length of Pleasure Month in 2022, in a post on Hauer’s page that has since been deleted. They then made their first crimson carpet look together the following month on the Stand Up for Friendly Dwelling comedy profit on the Fonda Theatre in Los Angeles.
“I’m in luxuriate in,” O’Donnell advised Stern, 68, on the time. “She’s truly sort and incredible, and I like the coast we’re going at. It is a ways no longer admire a U-Haul difficulty.”
She added that Hauer used to be “no longer pressuring me, which is factual because of I make no longer carry out properly below stress admire that. It most attention-grabbing feels admire a weight but that hasn’t happened.”
O’Donnell revealed to Stern that she in particular loved her then-female friend’s ink.
“I’ve by no plot dated a tattooed woman earlier than,” O’Donnell said. “[She has] 23 tattoos, including a giant one on her neck and her thighs and she’s very, very intelligent to me.”
Hauer also appeared to cement their romance with one other tattoo.
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O’Donnell confirmed off the ink on Hauer’s birthday in a TikTok photo montage the place Hauer sports an “R” tattoo — apparently dedicated to O’Donnell — on her arm in lots of photographs.
After fans identified the tattoo, O’Donnell later joked in one other TikTok video that “the ‘R’ stands for ‘rosé all day.’ It is also for radishes and radicchio.”
O’Donnell, who came out as ecstatic in 2002, used to be previously married to Michelle Rounds from 2012 to 2015 and Kelli Chippie in 2004. She is mother to Parker Jaren, 27, Chelsea Belle, 25, Blake Christopher, 22, Vivienne Rose, 19, and Dakota, 9.